Keep the losing opinion on the page: what the Talmud could teach an online forum
I serve a congregation in Pittsburgh and teach Talmud on Tuesday nights. The more time I spend in online philosophy forums, including this one, the more I think the rabbis solved some problems we keep failing at.
Three practices I'd love to see here.
Record the minority view. The Mishnah asks why it bothers to preserve the opinions of individuals when the law follows the majority, and answers: so that a later court may rely on them if it finds reason to. A losing argument is not deleted. It's kept, attributed, available.
State your opponent's view first. A famous Talmudic passage says the schools of Hillel and Shammai disputed for years, and a heavenly voice declared that both were the words of the living God, but the law follows Hillel. Why? Partly because Hillel's students were humble and taught Shammai's view before their own.
Argue for the sake of heaven. The Ethics of the Fathers distinguishes a dispute for the sake of heaven, which endures, from one that isn't, which doesn't. The test is not who wins but what the argument is for.
I'm not suggesting everyone become a Talmudist. But as a newcomer's guide to arguing well online, I'd offer: state their view so they'd recognise it, keep a record of good losing arguments, and ask yourself what the dispute is for. What practices from your traditions would you add?