Thesis A role-based ethics gives too little protection to the person the roles are failing
Where it stands
I study constitutional law in Delhi, and Ambedkar is my lodestar. In Annihilation of Caste (1936) he attacked a social order in which a person's duties are fixed by the position they are born into, and argued that such an order leaves the person it crushes little ground to stand on, because the same sacred authority that assigns the duties also forbids questioning them.
I've been reading about Confucian role ethics, and I want to test a version of that argument against it, carefully. I am not saying Confucianism is caste. It isn't: Confucian roles are not hereditary castes, and the ideal person, the junzi, is made by cultivation, not birth.
But on the "relational" reading, a person is constituted by her relationships: daughter, wife, daughter-in-law, subject. Obligation flows from role. My worry is the dissenter. If a daughter-in-law is mistreated within a household that is performing its roles "correctly" by the standards of its time, what standing does she have to say the whole arrangement is wrong? Her complaint has to be made from inside the role that is failing her.
The tradition has resources. Remonstrance is a duty. Mencius even approved of removing a tyrant. But the famous passage on remonstrating with parents says to do it gently, and if they don't listen, to remain respectful and not oppose them. That seems to me exactly the problem.
Thesis: grounding obligation in role leaves thin protection for the person the roles are failing. Persuade me otherwise.