Do the world’s ethical traditions really agree about how to live, or does it only look that way from far off?
There is a claim one often meets in comparative philosophy courses: traditions that disagree completely about metaphysics agree substantially about how to live. Aristotelian virtue, Confucian self-cultivation, Buddhist training and Islamic adab all say character is shaped by repeated action, habit makes you who you are, and a good life is a skilled life rather than a rule-following one.
There are two ways to read that pattern. Either ethics is more robust than metaphysics, emerging from human life lived in broadly similar conditions, so that it survives disagreement about foundations. Or the agreement is produced by summarising: describe any two ways of life vaguely enough and they will sound alike, and once you look closely the resemblance falls apart.
My own work is on false friends between Yogācāra and Husserl, so my instinct is the second reading. But I have been unsettled lately by how often students from different backgrounds recognise each other's practical advice immediately, even when they find each other's metaphysics bizarre.
I would like to test the claim with specific cases rather than slogans. Where, in detail, do the practical teachings of your tradition and another genuinely agree, and where does a closer look show the agreement was only verbal?