At my office “Confucian values” means obey the boss. Where did the reciprocity go?
I translate for a publishing house in Hanoi. When managers here want staff to stay late without complaint, they speak of Confucian values: respect for seniors, loyalty, harmony. We have a common saying about honouring teachers and respecting the Way. I grew up with it and I am fond of it.
But I have been reading the Analects and the Mencius again, and what strikes me is how two-sided the relationships are in the original. When Duke Ding asks how a ruler should employ his ministers and how ministers should serve their ruler, Confucius answers that the ruler should employ ministers according to ritual propriety, and ministers should serve the ruler with loyalty. Both sides are bound. And Mencius goes further: if a ruler treats his ministers as his hands and feet, they will treat him as their heart; if he treats them as dirt and weeds, they will treat him as a bandit and an enemy.
In the office version only half survives. The hierarchy is kept, and the duties of the superior quietly disappear. Loyalty is owed upward; nobody asks what is owed downward.
I suspect this is common wherever the tradition is used in management or political rhetoric. I'd like to hear whether others recognise the pattern, and whether it is a corruption of Confucianism, or something the tradition made possible by putting hierarchy at the centre.