What is Benacerraf’s dilemma, in words a school leaver can follow?
I finished senior high school this year and I'm taking a gap year, which my parents call wasting time. I've been reading about whether numbers are discovered or invented, because my maths teacher always said "we discover mathematics, we don't make it up", and I want to know if she was right.
Every article I read mentions "Benacerraf's dilemma" as if everyone knows what it is. I've tried to read the original paper and I got lost in the first few pages.
Part of why I care: last month I read al-Ghazālī's account of his crisis of doubt. He says he lost trust in the senses, but at first he kept trusting necessary truths, like ten being more than three. He was so sure of that one that he says even a miracle couldn't make him doubt it. So it seems mathematical truths were the most certain thing he had. But if numbers aren't anywhere, how did he know anything about them?
Can someone explain the dilemma simply? What are the two horns, and why is it hard to escape both?